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First Reading: Isaiah 42: 1-4, 6-7
Psalm: 29: 1-2, 3-4, 3, 9-10
Second Reading: Acts 10: 34-38
Gospel: Matthew 2:1-12
When Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea,
in the days of King Herod,
behold, magi from the east arrived in Jerusalem, saying,
“Where is the newborn king of the Jews?
We saw his star at its rising
and have come to do him homage.”
When King Herod heard this,
he was greatly troubled,
and all Jerusalem with him.
Assembling all the chief priests and the scribes of the people,
He inquired of them where the Christ was to be born.
They said to him, “In Bethlehem of Judea,
for thus it has been written through the prophet:
And you, Bethlehem, land of Judah,
are by no means least among the rulers of Judah;
since from you shall come a ruler,
who is to shepherd my people Israel.”
Then Herod called the magi secretly
and ascertained from them the time of the star’s appearance.
He sent them to Bethlehem and said,
“Go and search diligently for the child.
When you have found him, bring me word,
that I too may go and do him homage.”
After their audience with the king they set out.
And behold, the star that they had seen at its rising preceded them,
until it came and stopped over the place where the child was.
They were overjoyed at seeing the star,
and on entering the house
they saw the child with Mary his mother.
They prostrated themselves and did him homage.
Then they opened their treasures
and offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
And having been warned in a dream not to return to Herod,
they departed for their country by another way.
Anchor Verse
“This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.” – Matthew 3: 17

🔎 Lens: Before You Do Anything
Jesus didn’t need baptism. John knew it. “I need to be baptized by you, and yet you are coming to me?”
But Jesus insists: “Allow it now, for thus it is fitting for us to fulfill all righteousness.”
Pope Francis, in his 2020 homily on this feast, notes something critical: Jesus begins his public ministry not with a miracle, not with teaching, not with gathering disciples—but by joining sinners in the waters of repentance.
He doesn’t start from a position of superiority. He starts from solidarity.
The Father’s voice comes before Jesus does anything. “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.” Not will be pleased once Jesus performs, achieves, proves himself. Is pleased. Present tense. Prior to action.
St. Gregory Nazianzen reminds us that Christ’s baptism sanctifies the waters—he doesn’t receive cleansing; he gives it. But he still steps into the river. He still submits to the ritual meant for sinners.
The Catechism (CCC 536) says Christ’s baptism “prefigures our own baptism” and manifests “the mystery of the first regeneration: our Baptism.”
Here’s the uncomfortable truth tucked inside this feast: Your belovedness precedes your productivity.
The Father doesn’t say “This is my Son who will heal the sick, feed the multitudes, raise the dead, and die on a cross—therefore I’m pleased.” He says “This is my beloved Son” while Jesus is standing waist-deep in the Jordan, having done nothing yet.
We live in Herod’s court, in the scribes’ calculations, in the world’s ledger: Prove yourself first. Then you’ll be loved.
But the Kingdom works backward: Loved first. Then sent.
Reflection Prompts
- Where in your life are you still trying to earn what you’ve already been given? What would change if you believed you were beloved before you did anything?
- Jesus joined sinners in the river—not to distance himself, but to stand with them. Where are you avoiding solidarity because you’re afraid it’ll compromise your standing?
- The Father speaks before Jesus begins his mission. What does it mean that your identity is established before your activity? How does that shift the way you approach this week?
- John hesitated—”I need to be baptized by you.” Jesus said, “Allow it now.” Where is God asking you to “allow” something that feels backward or unnecessary?
Weekly Practice
At Mass
During the Creed, when you say “I believe in one baptism for the forgiveness of sins,” pause for three seconds.
Notice: Do you believe your baptism settled something? Or are you still trying to prove you belong?
After Communion, before you stand to leave, place your hand over your heart and silently repeat the anchor verse as if the Father is speaking it to you: “You are my beloved, with whom I am well pleased.”
Don’t argue with it. Just let it sit.
After Mass: The Practice of Pre-Approved Belovedness
This week, before you do anything significant—before a meeting, a difficult conversation, a task you’re dreading, even before you start work in the morning—pause and say aloud (or internally if you’re in public):
“I am beloved before I do this.”
Not “I’ll be worthy if I do this well.” Not “I’ll earn approval if I succeed.”
Beloved first. Then the work.
Notice what happens when you flip the order. Does the task feel different? Does your anxiety shift? Does your compulsion to perform loosen, even slightly?
This isn’t positive self-talk. It’s baptismal truth: You were claimed before you achieved anything.
Live like it’s true. Just for one week. See what breaks open.
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